Rambling Whatnots

I am PattySpankPants, I am awesome and complicated, delightful and frustrating, wonderful and annoying, a sunshine and lollipops kinda girl, mostly NSFW, mostly.


Pure decadence! Luxurious black leather floggers with solid stainless steel ball handles. 

The stems of the handles are designed to slip between your fingers, with the ball acting as a stopper. Once in place and with a gentle grip, the floggers become an extension of your arm. Perfect for two handed rhythmic flogging, or double them up into one hand for a real ‘thwack’!

These floggers are custom order only and feature:

  • 60 black goat hide falls per flogger
  • Falls are 22 inches long
  • Decorative corset detailing
  • Finished with Spanish ring knots

Check them out along with our full range of custom and Ready To Ship floggers, dragons and whips on Impact-Toys.com

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Now THIS is a bold lingerie ad.

When the star model for Forever Yours Lingerie was diagnosed with cancer, the brand decided to stick with her.

Tom Megginson at The Ethical Admanapproves:

“So, while American Eagle is getting virtual hugs and high fives for its commitment to not photoshopping its typical-looking models,  elsewhere there are brands and models who are willing to show us what it really takes to do something about the fashion industry’s body image problem.”

Read the rest

All I can do is


ETA: no, wait, hold up, stop the presses. There’s another thing I can do and that’s shop their store. You probably can too, because CHECK OUT THEIR BRA MATRIX



Reblogging because look at that size range!!!! And also because representation is important.


HELL YES and they’re CANADIAN. *bookmarks for later purchases*

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Amy Jade Winehouse | through the years | 9 /14 /1983 - 23/7/2011

- may you rest in peace, Lioness - only your music can save me -

you loved to live, you lived to love

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1) You’re empowering.
2) I like your voice.
3) You’re strong.
4) I think your ideas/beliefs matter.
5) I’m so happy you exist.
6) More people should be listening to what you have to say.
7) You’re a very warm hearted person.
8) It’s nice seeing such kindness.
9) You’re very down to earth.
10) You have a beautiful soul.
11) You inspire me to become a better person.
12) Our conversations bring me a lot of joy.
13) It’s good to see someone care so much.
14) You’re so understanding.
15) You matter a lot to me.
16) You’re important even if you don’t think so.
17) You’re intelligent.
18) Your passion is contagious.
19) Your confidence is refreshing.
20) You restore my faith in humanity.
21) You’re great at being creative.
22) You’re so talented at ____.
23) I don’t get tired of you the way I get tired of other people.
24) You have great taste in ___.
25) I’m happy I stayed alive long enough to meet you.
26) I wish more people were like you.
27) You’re so good at loving people.

—3:29 p.m. feel free to add to this!  (via expresswithsilence)

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